Not unlike anyone else in the world, my husband and I have had some health issues this year. I write this blog asking this question. How do you feel about swinging with people after they’ve had surgery? I have alot of dear friends who are anxious for us to be up and running again, so to speak. I’m also anxious as we’ve been out of the game for a while. Here’s my issue. I underwent a hysterectomy, and much to my chagrin, it seems alot of men go, oh my, you have no uterus, I can’t sleep with you anymore. Apalling as it is, it’s true. So, I figure these are not the people I want to be with anyway. There are lots of people i haven’t told, but the minute Im naked, they’re gonna ask what that hideous scar is!
So I guess I’m just not sure where to start. I still have a few weeks until I’m cleared for take off, but I’m honestly dreading it. Our first club outing is going to be hard for me, my club clothes really don’t leave much up for guessing. I’d like to think most people won’t say anything, but I have other scars, and have been left laying in bed alone because of them. Mind you, they’re not horrific giant scars. They’re relatively small and you can’t see them until I’m undressed. Anyway you get the gist. People are mean wah wah wah. I just don’t see why they have to be.
So the next time you meet someone, and they have a scar, or dental issues, or a lazy eye….Don’t dismiss them. Even imperfect people are interesting and sexy. Everyone has a story to tell, and if we don’t listen, what part of life have we missed out on?
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